Now that the official Thanksgiving Holiday is over and the Christmas Holiday season is in full swing. It is a great time to help your lover lay down her (or his) stress and do something wonderful...thank her!
That's right. Simply, thank her! This simple romantic idea may be a catalyst for a turning point in your relationship that really makes it soar and helps to show both of you how very special you are to each other.
Here's what I propose. Take out a sheet of paper and write down the 7 most wonderful traits about your lover that you appreciate most. If you truly have feelings for this person this should be easy. You may find that you list 10 traits or 20. Don't worry, thats all the better!
Next, you are going to pick out the trait that you feel most strongly about and when you wake up in the morning you are going to focus on that trait every time you think about her. If possible before you leave for work you are going to look her in the eyes and express to her your heart felt appreciation of the trait you selected and thank her for sharing it with you. Ladies feel free to practice this experiment as well. Example, "Erica, I really apprciate the way you are always able to have a positive outlook, no matter how challenging things are going in our life...Thank you! I love you!"
If you dare start the day off this way, how do you think things will progress throughout the day? Even if she gets irrate about some random thing, that seems silly or inconsequential, come back to that days focus, both in your mind and in your communication with her. Its your way of reminding her of who she really is and why you fell in love with her. Repeat this as often and as pasionately as possible and when in person always make deep eye contact like you just can't wait to make love to her. Even if you are just expressing how well she cleans the tub. Trust me, the feeling you convey along with the repetition will sink into her heart and by the end of this she'll feel like the queen of the Universe. Consequently, the queen will want to make you feel like "The King" that you are!
You can imagine what life will begin to be like after a couple days of this. Whew. After a week, passion love and reverance will reign supreme!!! And I do mean RAIN! :-)If you are having trouble thinking of some great traits here are a few examples like; how well she cooks, cleans, she always smells good, her beautiful eyes, her sexy body, her curvy hips (she'll love this one! bruthas you know what I mean!! :-), her beautiful smile, how she cares for the kids, how talented she is, how she leaves you alone to watch football on Sundays, the list goes on and on.
Do yourself a favor and step out of the box this week, try this romantic exercise for one week. I guarantee you'll feel more connection in your love life, she'll feel more connected to you and as Sweeping Her Off Her Feet With Food says, WATCH OUT! The love and passion will be truly flowing!
For more wonderful romantic ideas, and romantic dinner recipes, Sweeping her Off Her Feet With Food 
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