By Paul Krupin

It’s so sad. Each year you can see untold millions of men scrambling at the last minute to do something romantic,  a bouquet of obligatory roses, a box of heart shaped chocolates or reservations at one of the popular, but  invariably, hectic local restaurants. It’s like the lemmings jumping off the cliff into the sea.

     Boulder Colorado Chef Eric S. Lee, says he’s discovered exactly how men can  jump start, even supercharge their romance and relationships and make them last. The key to sweeping a woman off her feet, he says, is with
food.

     Lee’s popular romance and seduction manual/cook book, “Sweeping Her Off Her Feet with Food” is packed with delicious mouth-watering , aphrodisiac-laden instructions for preparing, cooking and presenting knock your socks off romantic recipes and romantic tips to spice up  even the most mundane. Here is a simple, easy to use cookbook for the romantically deprived.

     Lee says, “This book has been a labor of love for me for years now. It is a perfect storm blending my fascination with creating great dining experiences and the ecstasy that can only be found in love and seducing a woman.”

Some of his mouth watering eye openers include:

Salmon with Fresh Mango Salsa, Heart-Shaped Pasta with Prosciutto, Fresh Tomato, Peas and Arugula, Shrimp and Red Pepper Aioli Crostinis and The Best Bread Pudding She's Ever Had With Bourbon Creme Anglaise.

Buy the book now at; http//www.SweepingHer.com.

List $29.95 on Amazon

Remember the movie, "What Women Want?" Where Mel Gibson is magically gifted with the ability to hear everything the women around him are thinking. This puts him at an extreme advantage in business and love...especially LOVE! Today we are going to remake this story and place you as the star.
     Let's start with a little quiz From the book, What Women Want to see if you are ready. Ok, here goes; Which of the following spontaneous gestures do you think a woman would find most romantic?
a) Bouquet of flowers b) A surprise date c) A hidden note d) chocolates or candy e) A greeting card f) Jewelry g) A surprise phone call

If you answered "C" congrats! You are a regular Romeo of romance! 40% of the over 1,100 women surveyed agree with you. Flowers was a distant second with 28%.

It seems that a lot of the women indicated that their feelings are being triggered two-fold. First, the women loved the element of surprise of the gesture and second was the fact that it was created with his own two hands with feelings expressed from his heart. One woman went on to say, "A woman wants to feel that you love, cherish and care for her and her alone..." Writing a personal note is a simple yet powerful way of conveying that message and making her feel "romanced".

Success coach Nicola Jackson says, "For a woman, romance and sex go hand-in-hand. If he wants more sex, he should give her more romance."  In a more dramatic survey 100% of the 105 women surveyed responded yes to the question of whether they would enjoy a home cooked meal prepared by their significant other. If the meal was a surprise that simply pushed them over the edge of romantic bliss. One women stated, my husband really doesn't cook, but if he did that, I would rock his world!!!"

The trend that I see in all of my conversations with women about, sex, love and romance is that the more a man can create romantic experiences (especially with his own two hands), the more a woman feels loved and naturally and sometimes overwhelmingly the more she wants to have sex. Again, from the book What Women Want, "We hate to belabor the obvious, but before she wants to have sex, she wants to be romanced!"

My response with Sweeping Her Off Her Feet With Food is; Sounds fair to me! My philosophy is to try and take it a little further by employing what I call "Romantic Equity," which is consistently surprising her with, notes, text, emails, the verbal expression of my affection and appreciation of her, her favorite chocolates, and especially my secret weapon, the home cooked gourmet meal at least once per week. What I find is that I, am the one who consistently needs to be well rested because it seems that she wants me "in a romantic way" at least as often as I can handle it. 

So gentlemen, you now have your script. You now can read her mind and know exactly what she wants. Give it to her and see how much harmony, love and passion you find coming back your way. Not just Valentine's Day but everyday for the rest of your life!

How sweet it is!!!

  Oh my GOD! I love this one. Not only can a girl give this to her guy (great hint!). But a guy can give this to his girl with a homemade "Romantic Picnic With Me" coupon. Or just surprise her one day with this beauty on your back ready for action. The picture shows everything included, go to Red Envelope for more details or to order. This one is easily pushed over the top with its available custom embroidery. Put her name on it or better still both of your names like we used to do in high school, example; "Eric + Trudi" or how about a special date like an anniversary or birthday. Be creative. Once again, this gift will keep on giving and help build romantic equity in your relationship that could be spectacular! Visit; RedEnvelope.com
 
See the entire "Top Ten" at; Cooking2GetSome.com

If she is a wine drinker, this gift is nothing short of PERFECTION! Imagine the good feelings created every month when she goes to the door and receives a wonderful bottle of wine, customized to her taste. Imagine the warm feelings as you share this bottle of wine together! If you are a Sweeping Her Off Her Feet With Food user and have cooked a delicious romantic meal for her this could become overwhelming!!! Cellars Wine Club offers a great high quality selection of wines in every price range. They also offer packages customized to your taste and preference of international or domestic wineries. This is simply a GREAT gift! Visit at; www.CellarsWineClub.com. Choose from one of 12 Wine Clubs starting at only $19.95

Women love a man who cooks. Especially when the cooking is romantic and especially when the cooking is for her. SweepingHer.com says, "OUR SEXY ROMANTIC DINNER RECIPES will help you GET ALL OF THE LOVE AND SEX YOU WANT...TONIGHT!!! Ain't it the truth! If you need help with easy to make gourmet recipes that are as beautiful as they are tasty this site is for you. Romantic suggestions and tips for setting the mood round out this one stop site for romance. Ebook will soon be available for instant download. Visit; SweepingHer.com

Over the next few days I will be posting the "Top Ten Romantic Gifts" from Cooking2GetSome.com. These romantic gift ideas will send your lover into romantic BLISS!

Here you'll find the perfect romantic gift ideas to make this holiday season the most passionate yet!

In a HURRY? NO PROBLEM!!!

Use these links to find the perfect gift, many of which offer instant gift certificates or for a little extra express shipping! Some even have SAME DAY DELIVERY or FREE SHIPPING!

You'll instantly be her hero! Warm her heart, stir her soul and get her in the mood for LOVE now!

The best part is that you don't even have to leave your seat to rock her world this year. In many cases the perfect gift will be delivered directly to her door step, her job or quite possibly her email box.

In either case, we guarantee she is going to LOVE IT!!!

These gifts will be unique,  fun, easy to purchase, many are very affordable,  and they all will continue to give for years to come. Right now you will be able to build the romantic equity needed to put your love life in the excitement mode all year long!

ARE YOU READY TO BE HER HERO?

OK Let's get Started


# 1

Seal Your Love With A Diamond Ring! Diamonds are FOREVER!

  "Diamonds are a girls best friend!" Whether its time to pop the question and pledge everlasting love, the celebration of a special anniversary or just time to show her you're serious diamonds are a powerful way to melt her heart. This one will not only fill her heart with joy, it often brings overwhelming emotion and tears of joy! Diamond earings and tennis braclets can be found online at reasonable prices with a wide variety. DiamondWave.com has both a great selection and reasonable prices. They can also back up their great internet prices with stores all across the country. Check out their website, DiamondWave.com 

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Sometimes its fun to just go into the refrigerator, see what's there and see how creative you can be. My girlfriend Trudi likes to challenge me by pulling out a couple chicken breast and a couple of theme inducing ingredients and saying, "what can you make with this?"

Today she pulled out 2 breast (Chicken of course! Get your mind out of the gutter man!), some kalamata olives and some tomatoes she diced by mistake yesterday.

Tomorrow's post will be what I came up with. Big hint, it's  gonna be Mediterranean!

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